Does Good Technical Sex Have Better Outcomes Than Emotional Sex?
You have sex with someone who waits patiently, watching your every move, every reaction, he learns what makes your body go mad, what drives you to orgasm – then walks away, this is raw sex. Then there are those relationships where your body explodes just thinking about someone being close to you, sex with emotion.
For years I’ve asked every man how to give the best blowjob. I’ve learned how to tease, to build up expectations, and where to let my tongue lie on his balls.
The skill of making a man cum maybe a bonus but is it enough or is it better than sex with someone you love? Is technically good sex better than emotional sex?
“I agree technical sex can have a very different outcome than emotional sex, why is that though? I believe it’s because technical sex or non-emotional sex is free from the inhibitions and constraints of emotion. Both parties know exactly what they want from the experience, sexual gratification and therefore aim to please and ensure orgasm,” said Billy, tick, technical sex gives more satisfaction.”
Maybe when emotions overwhelm us our focus is so much on our body, we are buzzing, more focused on ourselves, lost in the moment and forgetting our technique.
“Emotional sex can sometimes happen, and often does in my opinion because sex becomes an integral part of an emotional tie. Two people are therefore having sex because they think they should and not because they necessarily want to satisfy the other participant,” said Billy.
For other men it is the emotional attachment that makes the sex. The building of anticipation of seeing a person, dreaming, fantasying about the first touch of the lips. It must be true. As you crave to be with someone and hands are flying over each other it’s so easy to get lost in the moment you forget your technique.
“Yes, emotional is very important. If there is no connection there I feel like I am just going through the motions and the sex gets boring. Without chemistry, it is only slightly better than touching myself ha ha,” said the lovely Mark.
Maybe technical sex is about instant gratification, while sex where there is an attachment can leave you feeling so good for so much longer.
“Very different indeed, the raw sex is fun, quick , lusty, but very empty. I’ve been connected with someone but connected in different ways and the sex to me has been in the long run much better. They are both sex and I had plenty of both, porn is for the brain, lust sex is quick satisfaction, deeper sex is to learn something about yourself if you decide to. ”, said thunderbolt.
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